Right. Based on the settings you showed me, your home address should NOT be publicly displayed on your Google Business Profile.
That “Show business address to customers” toggle was OFF. Your public-facing location is represented by your service areas instead—Oakland, Berkeley, San Francisco, San Pablo, etc.
Google still needs to know your actual location internally for verification, and your video showing the mailbox is evidence for Google, not something that gets published as part of your profile. The verification video itself isn't displayed to customers.
So assuming you didn't turn that address toggle back on: your house number/address stays private. 👍